Girls Who Want to be Babied

After a few dates I came to the distinct understanding that some women like to be babied and that this being babied concept helps them to increase their self-esteem. When a man helps them out, takes care of their car, drives them places, protects them and does errands for them the women feel as though they are highly desirable. Without such concerted effort the woman may actually feel as though she is less worthy.

Even though things are changing now women have been taught since they were young to be dependent. The whole concept of womanhood was wrapped in dependence and letting the man take care of you. This was the way gender relationships have been defined since civilization started and it appeared to make some sense. With the advent of feminism women took the opposite approach and this has also led to big problems.

Most women still adhere to the old fashion concept of the dependent woman. They desire and need a man to take care of them. The idea of the shining knight on the horse appeals to them because it is a much easier way of life then to go out there and work at your job each and every day, running to the store, coming home and cooking supper, washing kids, etc…

That leaves many men wondering precisely how they are supposed to baby a woman. Most women are looking for appreciation above and beyond everything else. They desire to feel as though they are special and focusing on this fact can help a lot of men please their women. The next time your girl is angry just remember the concept, “help her to feel special”.

To help someone feel special doesn’t need to be that difficult of a concept. There are many ways to encourage feelings of helpfulness but most falls in to the finance, romance and service categories. The finance section means that you are working to support them, the romance section means that you are thinking about them and helping them feel special the service section means that you are doing errands and favors for them.

Some of the ways is to buy gifts (financial), pay bills (financial), take her out to eat (financial), cook her dinner (service), drive her to her friend’s house (service), fix her car (service), leave a love note (romance), tell her you love her (romance) and be kind to her (romance). If you do all three you will likely please her to no end but beware because even good women can take things for granted.

Knowing when to do these things and when not to do these things important if you plan on maintaining the relationship a long time. The key is to not do the same thing all the time. It is acceptable to pay a bill when she is having trouble or fix her car when it needs it but it is not acceptable to fill her gas tank all the time, constantly take her to high end restaurants or assume that she is so special you need to be her slave.


By: Murad Ali