Are you finding it difficult to find others who want to date interracially? Try tweaking your online dating profile.
Many white males and black females want to date each other but are unsure if the other is interested in an interracial relationshiop.
To ease this burden make sure you state in your online dating profile what you seek. An example would be: "Looking to date a Black female or African American Female". Be specific. If you don't care what race you want to date put something in your profile like: "Race is not important". This statement will let others know that race is not an issue with you.
Yes, online dating profiles are difficult to write, but if you specify what you like, it will be a lot easier. Also, before writing a profile, take some time to write it down on paper first. Consider the following:
- Describe yourself (height, weight, eye color, etc.)
- What Do I like to Do
- Who I seek (include race)
- What location should they live in
- Include your zodiac side if you're into astrology
- Include the fact that you enjoy learning if this is the case
- Include if you like to learn new technologies if you seek the same type of person
- State whether or not you would date a single parent, divorcee, widower, etc.
- Be specific about the age range you seek
Basically, add some things about yourself that you seek the same in another person, but if you seek the opposite type of person, state it: "I am an easy going person, but would like someone who is very outgoing to get me off the couch." If you state this though, you must mean it because there are some people who really like to stay off the couch, a lot. So maybe say something like: "Seek an outgoing person who can get me off the couch, but you must also know how to relax sometimes."
Also, consider the following:
- Check your spelling. Nothing is a bigger turn-off than trying to read a profile with all the misspellings
- Break up the text. Try to make some paragraphs to ease up the reading for others.
- Don't write in ALL CAPS.
- Include something funny to show your humorous side.
- Last, but not least: Add a photo with only yourself in the photo.
I have seen photos online with people who have their kids and an ex in the photo with them. Not good don"t do it.
One other thing to mention: It"s ok to ask the other if they have ever dated outside of their race, but before asking this question, ask yourself why you need to know this information.
The other thing I would like to mention to White males is don't talk about sexual things to a black female unless she brings it up first - especially during your first chat. It might just make her run away from you.
Article from: http://www.goarticles.com
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