How To Approach Women

Knowing how to approach women is a vital skill every man needs to know, because approaching women is the first step in creating a relationship with the girl of your dreams...

You have to know how to approach a girl in the right manner if you want to have success with your pickup. The following are some proven tips I'd recommend you do to help you be successful in meeting women!

Have you ever approached a girl with what you thought was the best pickup line ever, but she freaked out when you tapped her on the shoulder?

Know this - getting shot down has little to do with what you were going to say or what your intentions were. It's all about how you go about actually approaching your target. It's important to do this right the first time, because it's hard to recover when you make a mistake right off the bat.

The most important thing to remember when approaching women is to come off as NON-THREATENING and to not, under any circumstances, telegraph your interest in them too early.

This is about by-passing a girl's defenses and flying in "under the radar."

It's the woman's reality that she constantly gets guys approaching her and trying to pick her up, so her natural inclination is to nip this in the bud quickly by outright REJECTING any man who seems interested in her.

Most men don't realize how annoying it can be for women to constantly be approached by guys who run the gamut from big time loser to big time creep. Because of this, women just don't want to deal with yet "another pick-up attempt."

But despite all this, the girl WILL be receptive to you if you know how to approach her in the RIGHT WAY.

So let's talk about the right way to approach any woman...

First of all - DO NOT HESITATE.

If you wait too long before approaching a girl, you'll probably talk yourself out of doing it. Be focused, and like Nike - JUST DO IT.

Next, know before-hand what you're going to say. This makes the act of approaching women so much easier, because you don't have to waste time thinking of something to talk about before you approach.

Having a good "pick up line" memorized for situations like these is always a good idea.

But don't confuse the term "pick up line" with sleazy saying like "Nice shoes, let's have sex!" The goal here is to be NON-THREATENING, remember?

A good pick up line is something that will start an innocent conversation with the girl you're approaching. Examples of a good line would be to ask her opinion on something and then continue the conversation by asking more questions about her opinion.

When approaching a woman, it's important that you approach her from an ANGLE. Most guys charge towards the girl they want to meet like they're marching to war! Coming in at an angle is much less confrontational and will put the girl at ease on a subconscious level.

Remember this golden rule of pick-up: Attraction can only happen when the girl is COMFORTABLE with you! Because of this, it is also vitally important that YOU feel comfortable when approaching women.

It's natural to feel uncomfortable meeting attractive women, but remember - practice makes perfect! If you take the time to go out and practice meeting women, over time it will become easier and you'll be more comfortable with doing it.

Let me tell you - getting good at approaching women is not going to happen if all you do is read about it or study it! You actually have to DO it so you can build your level of experience. (Trust me, it gets easier the more you do it).

If you're afraid of rejection, adjust your goals so that it's hard to get rejected. Too many guys try and get the phone number, the date, or the quick romp in the sack. Instead, take baby steps and set your goal as just talking to the girl and carrying on a conversation. Use that as your measure of success. Remember, you're just learning the right way of doing things.

That's it!

This is a numbers game. The more women you talk to, the easier it is. See how many you can talk to in a day and keep trying to beat your score.

One last note - try and use a "time constraint" whenever you approach a woman. This is as easy as saying you can only talk for a minute before you have to run.

Effective use of time constraints will better engage the woman you're talking to, because she won't feel that she's committing to a time-consuming endeavor. Instead, you're only a momentary "distraction." This helps eliminate any reason to reject you right off the bat.

Don't worry about putting a time limit on yourself. Once the conversation picks up, the girl will forget about your time constraint and you can talk to her as long as you want. Remember, the goal here is just to get the conversation started, and a good time constraint will help you do that!
Be aware that the dating game is actually a numbers game. You need to meet as many women as possible to find that one special girl who will change your life.

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